From Family to Court
A survivor asks, “Once your abusive partner has used the
legal system for further abuse, and final papers are filed
with you having to see a psychologist of his choosing, what
do you do? How do you turn the case around? He continues
to threaten to take the children away.”
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When you are in this situation, it feels like something
went “wrong.” You ask yourself, “How is it that I’m the
victim/survivor and I’m having to defend myself and prove
my mental/emotional stability.” Right.
Here are a few pointers to dealing with legal
psychiatric/psychological abuse (as I call it).
1) You must work with a psychologist who is also an expert
in domestic violence and the legal abuse syndrome.
2) You must realize that what you are being subjected to is
NOT about you. Rather, it has more to do with the agenda of
your opposition.
Your abusive partner has probably been telling you all
along that:
— there is no abuse,
— you’re too sensitive,
— you have fabricated the whole thing,
— you are the one with mental/behavioral defects.
That’s right—you know this. He/she will insist
that you are the problem. And because he/she needs to be
right, the mission is on to prove you to be wrong.
3) You must do all that is humanly possible not to be
subjected to surrendering your mental health to another
person against your will.
To learn how to do this, you need to seek the help of a
psychologist that has expertise in family violence and
legal domestic abuse. And
often with this, these women are officially directed into
psychiatrics that invariably compromise their mental health
indefinitely. The damage can disable them manifold for life.
You must understand we are not simply talking about a
little mental health name-calling to jockey custody. We
are talking about being forced into psychiatric remedies
that have the potential to destroy your mental faculties,
leaving you unemployable and potentially dysfunctional
beyond your imagination.
Real Life Legal Psychiatric Abuse
For example, under the guise of a request for a psychiatric
evaluation, battered women in divorce court can be directed
by the selected psychiatrist to undergo multiple rounds of
involuntary electroconvulsive therapy and receive
psychotropic medications.
I hope you are listening carefully now.
I have known some patients clinically for whom it took
years to be released from their in-patient confinement.
Now, I’m not saying it always progresses to this extreme.
But, it happens enough that it’s something you want to be
aware of… Further, you want to understand that this ploy
is all in the effort to jockey custody, maintain control
and discredit the abused.
When your ship is sinking, you do not have to drown. You do not
have to become the insane one. To the contrary, this is the
time to rally your resources before the indelible damage is
done.
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